Don’t Have Sex If…

1. You are feeling pressured
2. It goes against your values
3. You are drunk or high
4. You are not ready for the relationship to really change
5. You think it will make your partner love you
6. You think it will make your partner stay with you
7. You are very needy emotionally
8. You think it will make you acceptable to your friends
9. You think it will give you bragging rights
10. You think your friends will think you are cool
11. You don’t want to hurt your parents
12. You need someone to love you
13. You can’t control yourself
14. You are scared of becoming a mom/dad
15. You are bored
16. You think it will make you lose weight
17. You think it will make you love your partner
18. You think it would be easier to just give in
19. You think you owe it because you have been together for a while, or he/she has given you expensive things or taken you out on expensive dates
20. You afraid to say no
21. You don’t know how to say no
22. You think everyone else is doing it
23. You’ll feel embarrassed or ashamed
24. You feel you have to prove something
25. You expect it to be perfect
26. You think to be a virgin means that no one wants you
27. You’re only thinking about yourself
28. You think that the consequences will never happen to you
29. You think that it will make you popular
30. You kind of like living on the edge
31. You are only thinking about what your partner wants and not what you want
32. You are curious
33. You want to be mature and sophisticated
34. You don’t think you have any other choices or options