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RATE YOUR RELATIONSHIP!
So you are in a relationship now, but do you know how strong and healthy is your relationship? Take our test to find out more! Get a pen and paper and you are on your way... Circle the number that best represents your boy/girlfriend.
1. FOUNDATION (Is he/she too selfish, self-centred or too giving in this relationship??)
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Self-Centered (only thinks of self) Giving 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 |
2. TRUST LEVEL (Does he/she trust you and can he/she be trusted?)
| Not at all Committed and trustworthy 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 |
3. SECURITY (Do you feel safe and secure when you are with him/her?)
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Not at all (Temporary) Lasting and Very Secure |
4. INTIMACY (Is the closeness healthy or unhealthy?)
| Controlling Genuine Warm and Caring 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 |
5. SELF-ESTEEM (Is he/she too clingy or not?)
| Needy Confident 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 |
6. TIMETOGETHER (Do you feel that he/she expects you to spend too much time together?)
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Needs too much time Can have freedom and space |
If you can circled 2 or more questions with less than the rating 4, you have to start to also look at your relationship and see if this is what you are truly happy with or if you are just staying in the relationship for certain reasons. If you score particularly low in a specific area, you also need to relook at what the relationship means (e.g. if you find yourselves spending too much time together in the relationship with no freedom and personal space, both of you could be stifling each other and not giving each other enough space to also have time with family and friends.) Afterall, a long-lasting relationship is built on a mutual and balanced areas of all of the above! All the best in your relationship! If you have any queries, you can log on and chat with our trained cyber-counsellors!